By: Adriana Pushchak

When I was a little girl, I used to stand in front of the mirror and imagine what it would feel like to wear a crown. Not because I wanted to feel better than anyone—but because I wanted to prove to myself that I could shine, no matter how small the world tried to make me feel.

Years later, winning Ms. USA Universe Petite 2025 felt like a dream come true. But more importantly, it seemed to confirm that the lessons I’ve learned along the way were worth every challenge, every tear, and every late night I almost gave up.

So today, I want to share with you five life lessons that played a key role in helping me get here. These aren’t just pageant tips or surface-level affirmations—these are truths I’ve lived. And I hope that no matter where you are in your own journey, they’ll serve as a reminder of the power you already have.

1. Confidence Is Something You Can Learn

I used to think confidence was something you were either born with or without. I wasn’t the loudest in the room, I didn’t always feel “seen,” and there were times I second-guessed everything about myself—my voice, my height, even my smile.

But here’s what I’ve learned: confidence can be developed.
It’s something you cultivate through small wins. Through choosing to speak up even when your voice shakes. Through wearing what makes you feel powerful, even if it’s different. Through showing up, over and over, even when no one’s clapping yet.

I didn’t wake up one day and feel ready to take the stage. I trained for it—physically, emotionally, mentally. I surrounded myself with reminders of my worth and took back the narrative. With time and effort, I believe others can do the same.

2. Your Inner Circle Matters More Than You Think

I likely wouldn’t be where I am today without the people who loved me when I had no title and no crown. My family, especially, has been my anchor. They were the first to remind me that I was enough—and that no dream was too big for a girl with a big heart and a strong work ethic.

We all need a safe space. A voice that reminds us of who we are when the world gets noisy. If you have even one person in your life who truly sees you—cherish them. And if you don’t, consider becoming that person for yourself and for someone else.
Support is not weakness—it’s power.

3. Comparison Can Steal Your Joy

There is always going to be someone taller, richer, more “perfect,” or with a seemingly easier path. But the more I compared myself, the smaller I felt. It took me a while to realize that my uniqueness was my strength—not something to hide.

No one else has your exact story, your energy, your magic. When I finally stopped trying to “measure up” to someone else’s journey, everything changed. I started to dress the way I loved, speak the way I wanted, and walk like I owned my place in the world.
And that’s when doors started to open.

4. Success Is Built in the Everyday

People often think that winning a crown is a single moment of glory. But I’m here to tell you—the real success was built long before I stepped on stage. It came from when I chose to wake up early for rehearsals. When I said no to distractions and yes to discipline. When I practiced walking in heels in my living room for hours just to get it right.

Success isn’t glamorous. It’s daily, consistent, and sometimes really uncomfortable. But that’s where the magic is. Every small decision you make builds the foundation for your future.
So don’t wait for the “big moment.” Celebrate the little ones. Because that’s where your power grows.

5. Your Strength Has the Power to Uplift Others

Wearing a crown doesn’t mean I’m above anyone—it means I’ve been given a platform to reach more people. And I believe the most beautiful thing we can do with our strength is to share it.

I want other women—especially young girls—to see me and feel seen. I want them to know that being different isn’t a disadvantage. That being petite, soft-spoken, or unsure doesn’t make you any less powerful. That there is space for every kind of woman to rise.

If I’ve learned anything, it’s that we each have the potential to shine—and when one of us rises, we create space for others to rise too.

So wherever you are—starting over, reaching higher, or just trying to get through the day—I want you to remember: You’re enough. You’re powerful. And your dreams matter.
The crown was never the end of my journey. It’s just a new beginning. And if I can step into my power, I believe you can too.

Published by Jeremy S.